How to handle difficult relationships/colleagues during the holidays

The holidays! The parties! The dinners!!

Spending time with friends, colleagues and family can be wonderful and uplifting.

It can also a big source of stress and anxiety even for the most functional families! . Being around family can bring up different emotions or resentments and send you back into old patterns. . I want to help you skip the drama (or handle it with ease, love and grace if it comes up), with a practice that has helped me a lot! and I know it can help you as well.

Watch this video and share the secret with a friend.


Divine Love,  I want to ask you to renew my Heart and do not let past resentments interfere in my present.

I ask you to use my hands, words, actions to elevate yourself and take me in the right direction towards your divine purpose.

Today I want to ask you to fill my heart with grace and light.

Allow me to see and feel with eyes of love, compassion, the actions of others without exposing my heart to attacks or aggressions.

Help me  carry your light and grace in every moment and place. Instrument of your PEACE.

Please come with me Lord, do not let go of me for a second.

5 steps to get clear on what you want and achieve your dreams!

Can we have it all?

Is that even possible?

The answer is: yes! You just need to understand you can have it all just not at the same time. Here are my 5 steps to get clear on what you want and achieve your dreams!

The answer is: yes! You just need to understand you can have it all just not at the same time. Here are my 5 steps to get clear on what you want and achieve your dreams!

“Where focus goes, energy flows” – Tony Robbins

 Get clear. You need to get really honest about what you want, and what you will have to do in order to obtain it.  Remember that energy flows where attention goes. What you focus on, grows. Whatever is the focus of attention becomes more prominent. Invest in focusing on what you really want, don’t waste time overanalyzing, daydreaming, or wishing for something that in the end won´t make you happy and actually will make you feel frustrated, not satisfied. Make a vision board to confirm that everything is aligned with what you want from your heart.

It’s common to listen “I want to be like him or her but they never take a minute and think: Would I be willing to work X amount of hours more per week, sacrifice holidays, travel 290 days a year?, etc.  Do I really want to commit to what it takes to be where this person is? How does happiness and success look like to me?

1.     Be clear on your why

Why do you want this business position or want to offer this product or service. I don’t mean your vision or mission… I mean your purpose and intention behind the desire of doing or pursuing A,B,C. Why this is lighting me up?

2.     Get rid of limiting beliefs because they are limiting your greatness.

Observe your mind patterns. What is your inner dialog when you think about where you want to be in the future. It is common that people dream big about their business or career but when it´s time to take action, make changes to get there. This thoughts like these might come up:

“Maybe I shouldn’t risk what I have. What if everything goes wrong?”

“Who am I kidding? I’m not qualified to do this. I’m not Shark tank material”

“There are so many details and procedures I need to figure out. It will take me a lifetime to be ready.”

“There is a crisis right now. The time isn’t right. I have way too much going on to do this now. I will wait until….”

Write them down not to judge or punish yourself but to understand what is going on in your mind and how it is boycotting your future.

3.     Raise your standards and the Universe will meet you there!

The minute you get clear. Opportunities will start to come your way. Why? Because the Universe knows that when you are clear on your why, what and how, it’s a sign you are ready! Ask for guidance, extend a prayer.

4.      Faith, patience & divine Timing

Trust divine timing and understand that rejection is redirection. Do your work, be clear on what you want. Stay honest, focused and Trust. Doors will open when you are ready. Believe me… its not only  saying I’m ready is actually aligning your thoughts, actions and energy.



I loved every second of this podcast! Hosted by Allyson Melody where, some of my fellow spirit junkie brothers and sisters joined the conversation on How to create a spiritually aligned relationship with food to change your body, business and Life.

As some of you already know, I started my a spiritual awakening journey through my recovery from anorexia 10 years ago. I was working as a fashion designer, living in New York, living the dream I had since she was 4. But I felt disconnected (Mind- body-Soul). On this episode, I share my aha! moment, and some self-love practice that transformed my reality and thought me that my eating disorder was a teacher and door to freedom.   

Listen to the podcast here



We live in a world where we have to be ONLINE, present, active, responsive, fast… sometimes it can get too crazy. The idea of being offline might sound insane and not even possible… specially if you work with them but believe me ITS WORTH IT and it will be OK.

in my case, a few weeks ago, I realized I’ ve been an active user of instagram since 2012! Its been almost 7 years! I decided to take a break for at least 40 days  from Social Media.

Let’s be honest sometimes its hard to stop scrolling down… we live in a world full of distractions that offer us an instant virtual rituality and entertainment that can make us disconnect from reality. We live connected to everyone… you can see what our friends are doing around the world, message them, get nice quotes, jokes, express ourselves, share your plans or style. However, this social playground can make you spend so much time and attention on it… sometimes without even realizing it..

Its fun but it can be dangerous specially if you follow accounts that no necessarily inspire or motivate  you. In some cases, some images or videos can take you to a space of insecurity, judgment or comparison in two seconds.

This is what I discovered….

What I was not expecting was that maybe SM detox was one of the best things I have ever done in a long time! Don’t get me wrong I love to connect and share but sometimes it can make you miss the present.

In case, you want to take a digital or social media detox for a few days, weekend or weeks  here are some of my tips to do it in a graceful way.  You will be in shock, the first 72 hours without having a SM platform to check. It sounds simple and easy but after being used to something for such a long time, it became a habit and in some cases an addiction.

Steps for a Digital detox

1-    Turn off push notifications to focus and practice PRESENCE in the Present and  avoid temptation.

2-    Commit to your practice and get a journal: write, draw, paint.

3-    Observe your thoughts and write them down. What happens when you don’t have social media, have news from your friends or your must-watch/read accounts.

4-    Make your bedroom a no tech space. * this should be something you do forever, not just 40 days.

5-    Have a plan of what you want to do during your tech-free hours.

6-    Bon Appetit! Enjoy your meals, meditation space, music and daily routine. Notice the ordinary-extraordinary moments we have during the day.

7-    Dress for yourself, drink the matcha, cappuccino, smoothie  and take a picture- only for yourself. Let life fall in love with you all over again.

**** and when you come back to the digital world enjoy your new way of using digital platforms. Stay connected, present and keep your breaks. 🙂


Healing comes with love and forgiveness – To “for-give” is a process of giving forth. In forgiving we give a new trust to another, exemplified by our risking being open, vulnerable, and receptive.

Forgiveness is freedom  Ho’oponopono is one of the most beautiful and profound ways we can practice  forgiveness, love, letting go and presence.
Sometimes we find it easier to forgive others rather than ourselves. Healing the relationship you have with your body is the foundation of all of your relationships. It all goes down to the following question:


For years, this was really hard for me. I had a very bad relationship with my body. For years, I had a very negative self-talk, judgment, and practices. For years, I did’t felt beautiful and was very insecure because of this.

I was riddled with anxiety, cloaked in false confidence, chasing external validation and truly believing that if I just got this job, guy or size I’d feel enough. All while trying to make sense of who I was.

I had no idea what self-love meant… and that’s the thing. I guess most of us at some point had a negative relationship with our bodies.  We start to experience our bodies through our ego ( fears, insecurities) wishing to look or be X,Y,Z because what we have apparently is not good enough and we start to believe it!

The worst part of this is that our energy also starts running low… so we start attracting really weird situations and people that come to mirror  those beliefs. Until, one day you decide what to see in that mirror.

Ho’oponopono helped me so much!

Ho’oponopono is an ancient Hawaiian well-known for helping clear negativity, resentment from one’s mind and thought..The word “ho’o” means “cause” in Hawaiian, while “ponopono” means “perfection”. The term “ho’oponopono” can be translated as “correct a mistake” or “make it right”..This practice can be used for yourself or with the intention to forgive someone else.

Now, let’s get to work. There are 4 steps.

I love to do it in front of a mirror. Today I will teach you a way you can incorporate this practice while you meditate.

Find a comfortable sit and gently close your eyes.

Allow your breath to guide you. When you more centered set an intention for what you would like to release, transform or forgive.

For example, I want to transform the wrong perceptions I created for my body. I choose love.

Breathe in and out your intention. * If you want to forgive or heal your relationship with someone visualize them in front of you.

Gently invite the following phrases as a mantra and repeat them for a few minutes:

1.I’m sorry.

2.Please forgive me

3. I love you

4. Thank YOU..

Repeat. Feel.


After, a few rounds release the mantra/the image of the person and gently open your eyes.

These four phrases seek to guide you through these four sentimental steps: repentance, forgiveness, love, and gratitude.Simply repeating these words can trigger the release of blockages, negative memories, and traumas so that you can take more control over your own body and life.Try them and let me know how it goes!!

Please remember, your body is LIGHT, a messenger of LOVE. Your body is DIVINE and it’s purpose is to be a vehicle of love and light.

Now let me ask yourself What do you choose to see in the mirror?

Please share with a friend and leave your comments below.